Better Relations Method

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Join the Better Relations Summit
and dive into building fulfilling and healthy relationships

Better Relations Summit invites leading experts on relating to engage in dialogues around how trauma can prevent us from having long-lasting, healthy & happy relationships and what to do about it.

Having fulfilling & healthy relationships is a key factor for human happiness.

However, so many people feel alone and unable to manifest the depths they need in order to feel deeply fulfilled.

We’re exhilarated by the early stages of love, but as we move onto everyday life, personal baggage starts to creep in. We can find ourselves floundering in the face of hurt feelings, emotional withdrawal, escalating conflict, insufficient coping techniques and just plain boredom.

There’s no denying it: making and keeping happy and healthy relationships is hard.

But why is that?!

Why even when love is present and both parties are trying hard, we don’t manage to stay in love, connection and empathy?

Why isn't a deep understanding of each other's personalities, needs, and boundaries always sufficient?

Why do all the conscious communication tools available sometimes fail to help when either of you is triggered?

Those are the questions we aim to get solved by our leading experts,
with the intention to NORMALISE TRAUMA TOGTHER.

Join the Better Relations Summit in the recordings
and dive into building the relationships you truly want

MEET YOUR HOST

Helloaa beautiful!
I am Ariane Lalakea, an embodied leadership and erotic empowerment facilitator and co-creatrix of Xperience BliXX.

I have been on the path of self-development and spirituality for more than ten years, studying positive psychology, classic and neo-tantra, yoga, massage, bodywork, breathwork, somatics, trauma and B,D,S,M.

In 2018 I co-founded BliXX where we bring consciousness to sexuality with the intention of personal and spiritual development and offer conscious kink retreats.

I share from my lived experience in dealing with my own trauma and from professional xperiences of providing deep transformational xperiences for more than 2000 beings all around the world.

Leading Experts

Jessica Fern

Psychotherapist, Coach, and Certified Clinical Trauma Professional. Jessica is the author of Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and NonMonogamy, The Polysecure Workbook: Healing Your Attachment and Creating Security in Loving Relationships, and Polywise: A Deeper Dive Into Navigating Open Relationships.

Amanda Biccum

As an Intimacy Expert & Embodiment Mentor, she focuses on guiding women back into connection with their bodies, their pleasure and their sexuality. She firmly believes that our body is our temple and coming back ‘home’ to our bodies is the pathway to more pleasure and deeply fulfilling relationships.

Shashi Solluna

Tao Tantra Facilitator and Coach. She studies classic Tantra and Neo-Tantra since 1999 and holds degree from Oxford in Psychology. She currently runs a Trauma Training for Tantra Professionals and hosts the Tantra Alliance to make Tantra safer. She has a book published with Hay House (Tantra Made Easy) and two documentaries on Tantra.

Luna Agneya

Sensuality and Relating expert- teaching, coaching and creating events & immersions in the field on Sensuality for many years. As a certified VITA Integrated Sex, Love & Relationship coach, Tantric Yogini, event manager, she fuses all of that to liberate people through the erotic, through relationships and through the shadow work of kink and taboos.

Magda Kay

Intimacy expert & certified Tantra teacher on a mission to help couples and individuals to embrace pleasure and have more fullfilment. She recently published her book, "No more Faking It," a guide for women. She founded the School of Intimacy, an online academy that teaches people essential skills for building happy, passionate relationships.

Shaft Uddin

A Visionary in Transformation and Connection Speaker / Coach / Somatic Trauma Release Therapist / Transformational Entertainer & Viral Content Creator. Shaft is not your typical speaker or coach. He's a force of transformation, a catalyst for healing, and a maestro of human connection.

Seani Love

Seani Love has been pioneering the art of conscious kink as a set of tools for healing and empowerment for 15 years. In 2015 he was UK Sex Worker of the Year. His work was featured in the award-winning film Touch Me Not in 2018. He facilitates online and offline trainings with the School of Erotic Mysteries to dive deeper into conscious kink.

Lin Holmquist

Started her spiritual journey with the primordial shamanism of the north and continued to study classic yoga & tantra and later the crazy wisdom schools of neotantra, NLP and therapy. Today she weaves modern psychology and science with traditional tantric and yogic practices and gracefully bridges the material and spiritual world.

Natalie Abraham

Certified Somatic Trauma Therapist, an intimacy coach and heart initiator, an artist and healer. She is also host and founder of her live radio talk show ‘Let’s Talk About’, conversing with international experts on subjects of relationships, sex and taboo.

Jones Bolt

Gestalt therapist, sex-coach and author from Munich, Germany. Starting out with men’s groups and a book on porn addiction, he developed into a mentor and teacher for sex and intimacy. His podcast „Rein&Raus“ is one of Germany’s top podcasts for sexuality, reaching 500.000 listeners per year.

Amy Rowan

Amy Rowan is the Suburban Sexologist on a mission to empower her clients through a deeper understanding of mind, emotions, body, behavior, and life force energy. A role model of long lasting and fulfilling relationships as she has been blissfully married to her husband for almost 20 years.

David Cooley

Professional Restorative Justice facilitator, diversity and privilege awareness trainer, and bilingual cultural broker. He is the creator of the Restorative Relationship Conversations model, a process that transforms interpersonal conflict into deeper connection, intimacy and repair.

Inge Visser

Sexologist with a background in regular sex therapy and relationship therapy but also in the modalities of the somatic realms like sexological bodywork and somatic experiencing. Inge works with couples and individuals around themes to inhabit more of themselves in their sexual expression.

Jonathan Beger

20+ yrs of teaching in the field of Tantra, BDSM, trauma work and shamanism. As a transgender Tantra and its phenomenal healing capacity has not only supported him to fully embody his temple but also lifted 30 yrs of depression. Co-founder of the ConSensual school hosting retreats and workshops for profound healing & expansion.

Sunny Ju

Embodiment educator, pleasure activist & founder of ‘Dearmouring Trainings’. With over 20 yrs of experience in trauma-informed body, breath, and energy work, she leads individuals & groups through profound healing processes, guiding them to break free from trauma and societal conditioning, finding inner alignment, joy & pleasure.